Sensory or Behavior? Observing age-appropriate typical behaviors

1-2 Years:

• Displays clingy behavior with parents
• Likes to be independent and may resist adult control
• Enjoys being the center of attention
• Expresses varying emotions and affection
• Has a vocabulary of 15-20 words
• Follows simple directions
• Engages in solitary/parallel play

2-3 Years:

• Has good receptive language
• Has a vocabulary of up to 500 words
• Engages in simple dialog
• Defends possessions but begins to learn to share and take turns
• Begins to socially interact in play
• Is shy with strangers
• Follows simple rules
• May display anger/frustration with temper outbursts

4-6 Years:

• Plays well with others, shares and takes turns
• Has and enjoys being with friends
• Follows simple rules and directions
• Apologizes for errors that hurt others
• Likes to help others and shows empathy
• Displays and identifies various emotions
• Has some self-control over anger
• Is timid with strangers
• Has definite likes and dislikes

6-12 Years:

• Considers peer relationships as important
• Develops loyal friendships
• Compares themselves to others
• Gender roles become more pronounced
• Develops self-discipline and self-control

Typical behavior patterns are important to be aware of with regard to setting expectations. Is a child throwing a tantrum or having a meltdown because they cannot verbally express their discomfort? Can your child often verbally express himself but at this particular moment he cannot? Is this a particular behavior pattern of a 4-year-old? Does your child have this social, emotional or cognitive skill yet, or is it above the age expectation? These questions may clue you in to whether or not a reaction is stemming from a sensory or behavior issue.

Next in The Therapy Spot’s blog series on sensory vs. behavior, we will identify environmental triggers.

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